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Dating Violence 101

Dating violence can happen to anyone, at any age, no matter what race or religion they are, and no matter what their level of education or economical background.

What do we mean when we talk about dating violence? Dating violence isn’t an argument every once in a while, or a bad mood after a bad day. Dating violence (or Relationship Violence) is a pattern of controlling behavior that someone uses against a girlfriend or boyfriend.

Abuse can cause injury and even death, but it doesn’t have to be physical. It can include verbal and emotional abuse – constant insults, isolation from family and friends, name calling, controlling what someone wears, and it can also include sexual abuse.

Know the warning signs. There are often overlooked abusive behaviors that can be early indicators that the relationship is headed in the wrong direction.

Here are a few warning signs to remember:

• Extreme jealousy
• Checking your cell phone or email without permission
• Constant insults or ridicule
• Telling you what you can and can’t do
• Financial Control
• Possessiveness or controlling behavior
• Making false accusations
• Keeping you from seeing or talking with family and friends
• History of abusive behavior, especially against a former dating partner
• Big mood swings
• Explosive temper
• Belief that abuse is acceptable in relationships

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